Tuesday, March 31, 2009
♥ marriage before graduation?!
so when i look at my life.
i would see it as... (in order)
primary school. high school. university. work. marriage. kids
if u didn't already realize. im one of those people who have a pretty good idea of where they want to be and when. haha. crazy i know~! i remember. i had everything planned out! married at 25, first kid at 28... ahh im a freak aren't i? (a dreamer? an idealist?) things don't always go that way. and i'm getting adjusted to the change ( or maybe so the realisation that things don't always go the way u want it to go ) , becoming more flexible maybe. haha
haha. O__O so the other day i heard about this couple who got married before they graduated
and yes i've heard of couples who have done so before. but i guess it never really appealed to me. or really, i never understood why they did.
but i ended up gaining a better "understanding" i guess. especially because it was a med couple who married before their graduated. and they had several valid reasons - that really made me think that it isnt such a bad idea after all.
so anyways. i brought it up with mum today in the car. because i wanted to see what she thought. (and if she would fund my wedding for me, if i did - because of course, i would have no money) and surprisingly i managed to somewhat convince her it was actually a decent and sensible idea. or maybe she just agreed because she thinks im being silly, thinking about marriage xD. which i am. but i just wanted to ask her. hehe. and she actually said, that because i'm the youngest i would probably get the most "help". but i did remind her, that despite being the youngest - it didn't mean i would be married last (because at the rate my sisters going... =/...) but anyways. my mum loves me more. (jokes!)
anyways. upon realising all of this. it came to me how stressful the next few years are going to be for me - certainly a big chunk of my life will be spent "studying"... or well, at uni. ( ahh goodbye social life =(...! )
umat is certainly coming up. and it will be my last chance to get into the undergrad program. since they're stopping undergrad med in 2010. and if not, post grad will be my last shot.
i'm going to get there right...? eventually...? of course! =) with God on my side? anythings possible.
i would see it as... (in order)
primary school. high school. university. work. marriage. kids
if u didn't already realize. im one of those people who have a pretty good idea of where they want to be and when. haha. crazy i know~! i remember. i had everything planned out! married at 25, first kid at 28... ahh im a freak aren't i? (a dreamer? an idealist?) things don't always go that way. and i'm getting adjusted to the change ( or maybe so the realisation that things don't always go the way u want it to go ) , becoming more flexible maybe. haha
haha. O__O so the other day i heard about this couple who got married before they graduated
and yes i've heard of couples who have done so before. but i guess it never really appealed to me. or really, i never understood why they did.
but i ended up gaining a better "understanding" i guess. especially because it was a med couple who married before their graduated. and they had several valid reasons - that really made me think that it isnt such a bad idea after all.
so anyways. i brought it up with mum today in the car. because i wanted to see what she thought. (and if she would fund my wedding for me, if i did - because of course, i would have no money) and surprisingly i managed to somewhat convince her it was actually a decent and sensible idea. or maybe she just agreed because she thinks im being silly, thinking about marriage xD. which i am. but i just wanted to ask her. hehe. and she actually said, that because i'm the youngest i would probably get the most "help". but i did remind her, that despite being the youngest - it didn't mean i would be married last (because at the rate my sisters going... =/...) but anyways. my mum loves me more. (jokes!)
anyways. upon realising all of this. it came to me how stressful the next few years are going to be for me - certainly a big chunk of my life will be spent "studying"... or well, at uni. ( ahh goodbye social life =(...! )
umat is certainly coming up. and it will be my last chance to get into the undergrad program. since they're stopping undergrad med in 2010. and if not, post grad will be my last shot.
i'm going to get there right...? eventually...? of course! =) with God on my side? anythings possible.
7:45 PM
