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Saturday, October 24, 2009

♥ windy pathways

is the naive the word i'm looking for?

i was studying social pscyhology the other day and it talked about how first impressions usually last, because if they're bad then we don't usually associate with that person anymore and also avoid the people around them.

lasting impressions. usually with someone we know well, when they say something or do something you don't like, you often let it go, because you believe you know them well enough that maybe they're just having a bad day or whatever.

but i guess people change. or rather, we continously get to know them more, and maybe it was more than just a bad day, but it's really what they think or who they are.

and maybe thats still okay. i think friendship is flexible like that. everyone changes after all.

but when it comes to relationships i think its different.

my husband and i will become one. we will share the rest of our life together.
he would need to be one who respects me, cares about, loves me and wants to be with me.
he will need to share the same values and beliefs as me...
maybe not always the same attitudes...

david asked me the other day if i thought josh was "the one".. *DADDADUMM*
and without hesitation i said yes.

technically i'm still a teenager. a teenagers naivity maybe?

i don't think a husband will treat his wife like he would have treated her when she was his girlfriend.

i'm starting to see and learn about the views josh has about marriage. and to be honest, i'm not sure if i entirely agree as such.

i'm starting to question what kind of husband he will be. and i'm not crazy. at least i think so.

but i think for now i should stop being so sure about things. so straight pathed about things. so simple minded. so naive.

kinda like medicine i rekon. i was so sure. and i thought i knew how to go about it. but the path isn't straight. its actually taken quite a few bends...

and i still don't know yet if i'd end up where i thought i would.


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