Tuesday, May 12, 2009
♥ pms is not an excuse!
pms is not an excuse to be moody, grumpy and stubborn.
okay. maybe it is. sometimes.
but it shouldn't be an excuse, when it comes to admitting i am wrong sometimes. and that i am sorry. and that it is my fault.
i am such a strong minded person. and i am also very stubborn. i always think i'm right, and if you think i'm not - then i love a good debate.
but i've come to realize, that when it comes to relationships - its not a debate. well, it shouldn't be. it shouldn't be about proving that your right. or making sure your point is valid... and making sure that you ALWAYS win. actually, it's not about winning at all.
it's about understanding. accepting. loving.
there are times where you won't agree on the same things, where you won't like the same things, and where you will view things differently. discussion in those times are good. arguing and debating is not.
pms is not an excuse. there will be times where i will be wrong. where i will be sorry. and i will find it VERY difficult to admit it... because i am soo... stubborn and i dont like admitting i'm wrong.
so honey, i'm sorry. i know u've already told me that you've forgiven me, but i know i must be pretty difficult to stick by me... especially when im super stubborn and moody and pms-y. so thankyou for being so understanding and loving... <3>
okay. maybe it is. sometimes.
but it shouldn't be an excuse, when it comes to admitting i am wrong sometimes. and that i am sorry. and that it is my fault.
i am such a strong minded person. and i am also very stubborn. i always think i'm right, and if you think i'm not - then i love a good debate.
but i've come to realize, that when it comes to relationships - its not a debate. well, it shouldn't be. it shouldn't be about proving that your right. or making sure your point is valid... and making sure that you ALWAYS win. actually, it's not about winning at all.
it's about understanding. accepting. loving.
there are times where you won't agree on the same things, where you won't like the same things, and where you will view things differently. discussion in those times are good. arguing and debating is not.
pms is not an excuse. there will be times where i will be wrong. where i will be sorry. and i will find it VERY difficult to admit it... because i am soo... stubborn and i dont like admitting i'm wrong.
so honey, i'm sorry. i know u've already told me that you've forgiven me, but i know i must be pretty difficult to stick by me... especially when im super stubborn and moody and pms-y. so thankyou for being so understanding and loving... <3>
Labels: boyfriend, life, love, pms, problems, relationships, stubborn
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