Wednesday, December 17, 2008
♥ neglecting friendships
life gets so busy sometimessss...
i'm really fortunate to have many friends who understand my busy lifestyle...
that i dont always have time to go to this and that...
that i have commitments that eat up my time a lot...
i think that this especially applies in my life in the past year.
year 12 - hecticness... busyness.. commitments.
actually, even in yr 11, i was already doing quite a bit.
many say - such is life.
and yes it is. but i must admit, im very fortunate to have some very good friendships that don't maintain constant attention and contact to be able to remain as "friends"...
and i have some very good friends who understand my busy lifestyle and the commitments i have...
so yes i am very blessed, with such an awesome bunch of friends.
today i hit the city and cinemas with a mate that i haven't had a deep convo with in a while...
and we use to be really close.. but i guess the busyness of life made us grow apart slightly. but not to the extent that we weren't friends anymore. because i was always there for him and vice versa. but i guess there was just a lack of some d&m for the past few years - yes i do believe it was one of those friendships that i may have neglected due to my other commitments
i guess on my part, i didnt put as much time and effort into this friendship as i should have. i regret that. i do. but its great because great friends understand. they accept it. they give u ur space when u need it. they give u the time when ur busy. yet they're always there when u need a listening ear.
anyways. today was good. good time to catch up.
i've realized that sometimes i take my friends for granted.
i need to appreciate them more. i do appreciate them more. i just dont always show it i guess.
ahh i'm so blessed with such a great bunch of friends. <3
i'm really fortunate to have many friends who understand my busy lifestyle...
that i dont always have time to go to this and that...
that i have commitments that eat up my time a lot...
i think that this especially applies in my life in the past year.
year 12 - hecticness... busyness.. commitments.
actually, even in yr 11, i was already doing quite a bit.
many say - such is life.
and yes it is. but i must admit, im very fortunate to have some very good friendships that don't maintain constant attention and contact to be able to remain as "friends"...
and i have some very good friends who understand my busy lifestyle and the commitments i have...
so yes i am very blessed, with such an awesome bunch of friends.
today i hit the city and cinemas with a mate that i haven't had a deep convo with in a while...
and we use to be really close.. but i guess the busyness of life made us grow apart slightly. but not to the extent that we weren't friends anymore. because i was always there for him and vice versa. but i guess there was just a lack of some d&m for the past few years - yes i do believe it was one of those friendships that i may have neglected due to my other commitments
i guess on my part, i didnt put as much time and effort into this friendship as i should have. i regret that. i do. but its great because great friends understand. they accept it. they give u ur space when u need it. they give u the time when ur busy. yet they're always there when u need a listening ear.
anyways. today was good. good time to catch up.
i've realized that sometimes i take my friends for granted.
i need to appreciate them more. i do appreciate them more. i just dont always show it i guess.
ahh i'm so blessed with such a great bunch of friends. <3
Labels: busy, life, old mates, relationships
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